Blog For My Wildies

It’s still an abuse, and since you feel harassed and hurt, it’s totally a “crime”. Does your mom know about this? I am so sorry to hear you that you’re getting physically AND verbally, that must have troubled and stressed you out so much. I highly recommend for you to tell your mom about this IF she doesn’t know this is happening. If she doesn’t believe you or care, then I suggest maybe try talking to your dad. Yes, it may be hard.. it might even end up worse. No one knows, but give it a try. At least you’ll get your feelings and thoughts across, and less burden yourself by having to keep it inside. If things gets worse, it’s time for the police to kick in.

Sometimes you need to know how to put yourself out there and tell a person that you have feelings for him. No good guy will make it awkward. If he does start avoiding you then obviously he wasnt worth it. Girly, im sorry to hear that you are depressed. You should be real with him and tell him exactly how you feel and get it off your chest. Dont ever be afraid of rejection. The brave gets what they want im always here to talk to you and cheer you on and go on!

what do you mean by you don’t want him to understand? that you like him? & you can paraphrase the message to however you want it to look like, and to how you’d say it. I was giving you an example. (: If he has interest in you too, then he’d definitely want to get to know you also. So he shouldn’t be losing that chance. Sometimes it’s good to be pretty clear so that the person will know.

He might not be talking to you for about two reasons: 1) he has no more feelings/interest in you anymore 2) he’s too shy to approach to you by himself. I think you can kinda figure out which one it is just by knowing how he reacts to you when you talk to him. If you want a true conversation with him face to face, why not try asking him through message saying something like “hey, I’ve been thinking recently that I wanna get to know you better and it would be great if we can meet up and have a little conversation (:”

I just thought of this like few seconds ago while reading this message…um.. hahahah this might sound real corny but maybe try using post-its? Like get a cute adorable post-it and write “I think I like you :)” or “I think I have a little crush on you :)” with a matching pen! Maybe add “p.s. i just felt like telling you today! haha no pressure!” I think it’ll look cute.. xD and just stick that post it on his binder or his hands,shirt,pencil case, … jus wherever he’ll notice right away before other does. (As soon as the class ends!)

omg girl.. don’t think that it’s your fault. Do not try to burden this all by yourself, because you’re not worth it, and you were just a kid back then. It was them who decided to divorce, not because of you, but by the actions your dad had took. I know it’s going to be really hard and is already, but I think staying calm as possible would do. Just for right now, the more you break down, harder it gets for your mom to divorce your dad and move on to a new life with you. I know.. I’m so sorry to hear all of this but just for now, for your mom and your family, stay calm and just respect whatever choice she makes. After everything has been processed, then you can maybe go cry into her arms… I wish the best for you love.

oh wow…………. she a biatch. like damn. does she have any better thing to do? it shows you straight up how dumb and immature she is. But this is what I think. If she’s still flaunting it all up on your face about her and him, you should keep your face neutral, and deadpan. Do not react to it whatsoever. So you’re not really ignoring her, but at the same time, making her look dumb because you’re just looking at her with pity. Get me? Just look straight into her eyes as if you feel so sorry for her that she’s trying soooo hard to make you mad and you’re not. Play cool. As soon as you show any reaction to it, bam, she’s gon get entertained and continue to do it. And maybe one day you can tell her sth like “If I were you, I’d spend the time with my boyfriend rather than trying so hard to irritate me.” and jus walk away. lol

did you talk to him when he added you on facebook?! if not, you totally should have! you could’ve asked him through facebook chat/message like “are you the guy from the bus? (:” or sth. And there you go, a conversation will go on and on! (as long as you ask him the right questions) If you’re talking about him talking to you on face to face, one day when you’re at the bus, wave at him saying hi. Smile like as if you’ve known him for a while! Don’t be shy, be confident when saying hi to him, and that’ll make it easier for him to say hi back to you. Then you should maybe ask him some casual questions like “where do you live? seems like we take the same bus around the same time a lot haha (:” ! I don’t know if this helped xP

I think you should maybe write them a letter, handwritten. You don’t have to do it, but I mean, you’d want to try various ways right? Usually parents find letters written from their children very touching and lovely. So maybe you should write how much you’re sorry and that you aren’t a “pot head”. Like say how barely you’ve done so they shouldn’t worry too much about it. Express through the words how sorry you are and start talking about your friends how they’re leaving the school or country. Tell them that they mean everything to you and are too important for you to miss out on just because of your stupid mistake you’ve made. I’m not sure if it’ll work, but I’m pretty sure the letter will calm them down a bit and help them know what you’re actually going through.

I’m so sorry but I couldn’t find the first part of your story…Idk which one it is :( Maybe he’s just confused whether he can see you as a lover. Since you guys know each other so well he just can’t see you more than a friend and he’s confused himself. And you know how he said he’ll slowly work into a relationship to “prevent getting hurt”? I mean… you don’t go out with a person just to not “get hurt”. I understand why he’s saying that, but still, he should be liking/loving you, and that should be the first reason to make a relationship with you no matter what. Maybe he just got over it since he does not talk with you after telling you that.. In my opinion, I think it’s better for you to drop your feelings..or is he worth fighting for it? Then go for it. It’s really up to your true feelings toward him.

IGNORE. oh god i just hate those girls. I know a friend who’s also like that, and guess what, I just started ignoring her without making it so obvious that I was. Whenever she started her “judging time” I just sat there not even listening to her. And I made comments that went against her time to time but not being a bitch. Who cares if she talk shit about you? All you gotta do is just be who you are and prove all of them that you aren’t like what she said. Don’t be afraid since you said you do have more friends than her. Then slowly just stop talking to her and live a separate life. Lol.

Show him and prove that a chubby, non-blonde girl can also be attractive and loved by him. Be you! You don’t have to change for him, I’m pretty sure you already know that. I think being close with him is the most important thing. Since your appearance isn’t close to his type, you’d have to go with your personality. For him to know that, you gotta be pretty close with him. Or try getting to know his friends too and be really nice to them. Later IF you confess to him… Who knows if they might tell D how nice you are and that he should go for you? You can do this. You are beautiful!